The loss of one electron often  turns an atom from negative to positive.

Five simple rules of  happiness:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.

Breathe in Faith...

Breathe out Fear...

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5 Stages of Grief
1. Denial
2. Anger
3. Bargaining
4. Depression
5. Acceptance

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Depression is often Anger turned inward!

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One Day at a Time

Recovery Songs for Multiple Addicts

"Twelve" the Album   

   by Dean B and Friends

.....an assortment of recovery songs for recovering addicts and recovering multiple addicts of all types and descriptions....

Recovery Songs

12 Step Lyrics

The Flash Player below will play the songs from the first 12 for you.

1. Whenever We Get Together .... no addict has to recover alone
2. I Gotta Be Me .... work the recovery program the way it works best - for me! 
3. Only the Future lies Ahead ... a song about a compulsive gambler that shoulda..
4. Racin' that Train ...... Feeling a little codependent? Listen to this one... 
5. Should I? ... Decisions, decisions, decisions... temptations, temptations...  
6. Bingo to Play ... blame and denial cycle of compulsive gambling 
7. That Shaggy Dog  .... unconditional love 
8. Good friends Don't Ever Go Away .... Coming soon
9. Someday ....... A gamblers dream.
10. And the Music Goes out in the Night Air... Sometimes grieving takes a long, long time... 
11. A Brand New Chance  ... a new day.... new feelings.... a new opportunity 
12. Happy Today ... living a day at a time 

 Kinda Country but still Pretty Good Recovery

Click the Titles below to stream the Songs with Realplayer, I am converting the rest of the songs to Flash soon. Click here to get your free Realplayer

•  Daddy Only Knew 3 Chords on his Old Guitar ... well I wonder where Daddy's playin now...? 
•  A Smile as Big as Texas ... death of a family member
•  It ain't over Yet! ... today's all we get .. tomorrow's but a promise that it ain't over yet.  
•  Tumbleweed ... Love story- codependency style  
•  Outlaw - Crime's adrenalin addiction treadmill .... on and on .... 
•  Country Singer in a Rock and Roll Band .... always feel like a square peg in a round hole 

Higher Power Connections

•  Singers And Pray-Ers ... there is more than one way to connect with the Higher Power. 
•  Bring Out The Best Dishes ... treat others with respect . "but for the Grace of God there go I"

Relate to these  

•  Daddy played a Guitar, Momma Sang a Song .... Getting out of the 'Blame and denial cycle' is tough
•  Steve ... a hard drinking, hard working tough guy 
•  Bailout Blues .... a gambler suffering with 'bigshotitis' 

Relationships

•  To Get Close to You .....  the continuous addicted/codependent  struggle between isolation and obsession 
•  Splish, Splish, Splash, Splash, Plop ....  relationships, losses 
•  Little Child ... letting the protected inner child out .. for adult children who grew up in an abusive atmosphere.. 
•  The Leavin' in Her Eyes .... pushing the envelope right over the edge 
•  Gonna Lose again .... when a best friend takes a shine to your lover, and presents an unwanted  choice between a friendship and a relationship 

Novelties

•  Yes! our Lives are Changin for the Better ... a fun codependency therapy group recovery song 
•  Play my Instrumental song for 2008

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True addiction recovery lies in the ability to deal with root issues, not simply medicate the symptoms of them."

  DB

"There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path!"

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You do not have to carry yesterday's hurt and damaged feelings into today.

 A fresh supply of new feelings is yours for the taking!

When All Else fails use Rule 62.

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The information provided is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Always seek the advice of your health care professional if you have a specific health concern.

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